Monday, May 23, 2011

The hard stuff and now . . .

Well, I wasn't sure I wanted to post some of these pictures because I felt such a pit in my stomach every time I looked at them, but then as I thought about it I didn't want to leave out main parts of Reese's first days in this world. Although her first week was hard and painful, this is how her life began and these pictures are a great reminder of how God carried us from that point to now! Thank you all again for your encouragement during that time :)One of the first times we got to hold her in days! I was SO thankful to the nurse for letting me take her out of that box. "THE BOX"- I hated that thing. Only being able to touch your child through those holes for days is really difficult. Here she is hooked up to everything. Daddy was talking to her and telling her what amazing things she's going to do, things we can't even imagine and things different from what we might think are amazing - I had to take a picture to remind me of that moment.

So many tubes and wires, but she was pretty relaxed the whole time.

Holding Daddy's finger :) Already a Daddy's girl!


Rid of all the tubes, except the feeding tube! We were so happy that day!

Molly came to see her Sissy - she looked at her for about 4 minutes before she was on to all the fun buttons everywhere!

Visiting with Sissy.

This is the day that we got there and they had removed her feeding tube! yay! Only good to come from that point forward. Now we're here . . .

preciousness!!!

Nothing like the love a mother has for her children.

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

The First Days of Baby Reese!

Here are a pictures from Reese's first week of life! We are so glad she's home and enjoying every minute with our new family. There will be more pictures to come :)

First picture. Mommy holding Reese right after she was born.

First family picture.All the grandma's!

Daddy giving Reese her first bath - he's such a good Daddy!

Screaming at bath time :)

First night - sleeping on Daddy's chest.


Big Sister Molly came to visit the next day. When I placed Reese on her lap here she said, "Too heavy Mommy, too heavy!"

Such a gentle big sister!

Getting ready to go home from the NICU! What a wonderful day!

This is Joy, one of our NICU nurses. We cannot even express how great those nurses were to our sweet baby and us. Daddy getting her settled in her car seat for the trip home. Yummy!





Home at last!!!

This is Reese's bonnet picture - Molly has one too, they're bonnets that you wear home from the hospital and then carry with you on your wedding day as a handkerchief. She was already in the car seat and so comfy that we didn't want to wake her by putting it on.

At home and in her bug outfit.



Sisters!!!

Ready for bed.

Friday, May 13, 2011

Our Precious New Blessing

Reese Noelle Pidge!

Well, as all of you know we welcomed our second baby girl into our family on Monday May 9th, 2011. Reese Noelle Pidge was born at 3:16 p.m., weighed 9 lbs 10oz and was 20 3/4 in. long! The labor and birth were an amazing process, much different than Molly and a little over half the time. We are so excited to have this sweet child in our lives.

What some of you might not know is that Reese was born with Downs Syndrome. We knew this was a possibility during the pregnancy, but did not have it confirmed during pregnancy because the procedure to do that was too risky. Upon Reese's arrival into this world we were informed that it looked as though she had Downs Syndrome, to what extent we weren't sure. The first thing John said was that God placed this child perfectly with us as her family. We might not understand the "why" or feel like we are equipped to handle this, but we do trust that the Lord's ways are higher than our ways and He knows best.

The next days have been a blur. Everything was fine after the birth and we were all moved to Postpartum, where Reese stayed the night with us and Katie began nursing. Tuesday afternoon, while visiting with some friends it became noticeable to us that Reese was suddenly turning purple. Katie unwrapped her and put her on her chest and her color came back, but upon trying to put her back down to wrap her back up her face began to turn purple. We called the nurse and they said lets just take her to NICU and have them check her oxygen level to make sure. John went with Reese and the nurses and when they checked her oxygen saturation level it was at 77% (it should be above 95%). The NICU nurses immediatly began hooking her up to the monitors and oxygen and she began to turn pink. We didn't know at the time, but this was the beginning of a long few days.

Tuesday and Wednesay seemed so long, but we were so strengthened by the prayers of our family and friends, knowing that we can walk through anything with our God. Tuesday, once they got Reese settled, they did a chest xray and ecocardiogram. The results of these tests were very good. Reese has NO cardiac problems, which is great considering that the rate for cardiac issues in Downs Syndrome babies is very high. Praise God! What they did see was that Reese's PDA (a flap from the heart to the lungs) was still open. This flap is open while in utero, but should close upon birth and her's did not. The doctors informed us that this is very common in Downs Syndrome babies and that they just need a little more time and help transitioning to this outside world. The flap will close on it's own (within a few days to a week or so) and until then she will remain on the oxygen. She also had jaudice, so she was placed under a light that helps her with that and was on it for 48 hours. It was incredibly difficult to see your child hooked up to so many tubes and wires and not be able to hold her. She was not even able to continue nursing because her oxygen level would drop because of the stress it caused her, so they began feeding her through a feeding tube down her throat. All we could do was look through the box and pray for healing.

Thursday was a day for praise!! When Katie got to the NICU in the morning they informed her that Reese had been taken off oxygen and was breathing room air through her nose piece and her oxygen level was staying higher than when she was actually on oxygen!! We were not expecting that AT ALL and know that it was an answer to prayer! She continued to do well the rest of the day and Friday morning when Katie arrived, Reese was slowly being taken off even the room air, with the potential of getting her nose piece removed by the end of the day. She also was no longer under the light for jaundice and therefore Katie could FINALLY hold her!!!!

That is where we stand as of now and will continue to keep you updated via this website. We are truly grateful for our family and friends who have come around us and given us more support, love and prayer than we could've imagined. These are the times where our words of saying "We're Christians. We believe in the Lord." turn into actions and He uses us and our circumstances to bring Him glory. We are both overjoyed knowing that the Lord has given us the privilege of raising this child. We know that she will change us more than we'll probably change her and look forward to that with faith in God that He will carry us through the hard times.

Love,
John, Katie & Molly